Don’t you?! I just love hearing from people and reading their year in review….all their little updates for each child….seeing all the awkward family photos that are inevitable given young children and pets and coordinating everybody looking good, eyes open, looking at the camera, smiling, and all at the same time. Impossible; at least with my lot. But I love seeing how much your kids have grown, who looks more like whom and in what way, and who’s missing teeth, and whether you cut or grew or dyed your hair. I get really excited when I see it’s a real card and open those before actual gift packages, in hopes of finding a picture or newsletter. I so appreciate those of you who still include us in your mailing list. I know how expensive postage is, how on top of things you have to be to get them done, pictures developed, written, printed, stuffed, and addressed in time. I see you waving hello through your family newsletter as if it were a headline in a moving dimensional newspaper like in Harry Potter.
My favorite newsletter that I really can’t wait to read is the one from Carol Leigh, my friend who is an incredible editor of the St. Olaf college’s publication in Minnesota. Only, this year that one hasn’t come yet. Hmmm. My sister-in-law, another talented writer, did a really creative way of using excerpts from her journal entries to go through each family member’s main events whilst giving us a delightful sense of the child’s character. I’m beginning to think there’s nothing that woman can’t do a fantastic job at if she even attempts something. Man, oh man, she amassed and created this family cookbook and gave the immediate members each a copy of it for Christmas that was INCREDIBLE! It really got my creative juices churning as to the possibilities of application for my side of the family. She used a site called scrapblog.com. You should check it out. And, if you live nearby, you should get a load of mine. It’ll make your jaw drop.
But the BEST one I got this year, and I think the funniest I ever got, was the one from my friend Kriste. She’s the head teacher at Kosette’s school and has become a personal friend of mine. She has the best sense of humor. I cracked up so hard, Kham had to take it from my hand to see what was getting my extreme reaction, and he couldn’t help but laugh too. You see, she had a tumor removed from her brain in August and is finally back in Corvallis after multiple surgeries and tough physical therapy. She’s really good now. Not great – still dealing with a little vertigo issues, but on the road to recovery. It’s nice to see her sense of humor still in tact and strong as ever. I really should take a picture of it to show you but it has a picture of her in rehab, a picture of her with her mom visiting the park by their old family home, and then one of her baking with her daughter (all post surgery, all smiling big):
2010:
To The Ten’s
I don’t know about you,
but my resolution for 2010 is
to cut way back on the brain surgeries.
Love, Kriste
Isn’t that awesome?! Classic Kriste. I loved it. If there was some random Best Christmas Newsletter publication contest site, I would enter hers.
We didn’t do a card this year, and won’t be. Perhaps next year. Maybe I should add it to my 2010 resolutions.
But here is what I’d say, if I were to quickly write one:
Kosette is 6 1/2, in the first grade, loves to write stories, listen to “fairy” music, and play with her toy horses and is already begging me for a real one of her own. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree there. She lost her first two teeth (the bottom ones) Christmas week and is about to start swim lessons so she can be water safe, and Irish Dance Classes (her first dance class ever!) thanks to her most generous extended family. She is her own person that one; makes for both a very amusing and challenging parenting experience at the same time. All she asked for Christmas was, _______{insert 1,000,000 different things here}. Santa did not appease. But she seemed thrilled with her wooden barn for her horses and her future prospects.
Kellen is 5 at the start of March and will start Kindergarten Fall 2010. Wow! He falls straight down the line as far as stereotypical gendered activity preferences. The training wheels are close to coming off. He has a fantastic throwing arm (methinks t-ball is in his summer’s future). And he is electronics obsessed. What very limited time and activity he has on it, he gets immediately intense and in-the-zone, and acts like a maniacal addict when his time is up and it’s all he talks about. He very much reminds us of my brother, Kalani, and Kham’s brother, Chris in a multitude of ways. All he wanted for Christmas was a “remote control helicopter” (same as last year that he broke the first week). Santa did not appease but he didn’t seem to notice. He can’t wait to “kick like Mantis in Kung Fu Panda.”
Kham is “older than dirt” and still working on that highway expansion project. He’s studying in his “spare” time to take an exam to get his CPESC certification (Certified Professional in Erosion and Sediment Control). Hopefully, this will make him, and therefore, his company more desirable for future environmental projects within our area. He has been reading a lot of historical fiction of late, particularly of the early roman and anglo-saxon eras. He’s also been on a kick of playing that Wizard 101 game that the kids were playing (he found it and taught it to them), and was genius enough to construct a behavior chart based on casting spells and blocking with shields. It has helped thus far. The kids are into it and seem motivated which is what matters most right? The naughty seat has been retired.
Kari, has stopped counting and actually has to think before giving her age. I sorta went back to work (weekends only so we wouldn’t have to negate my income with childcare), my first time since having kids. I was fortunate enough in this economy to be able to get a job at the local garden center (not Home Depot, we’re talking high end, premium plants and statuary). It helped send our family back to LA in October for my sister’s wedding. Having finally accepted that we would not be having any more children, I pleaded my case for a puppy instead. I got my wish as an early birthday present and am now the proud owner of a black, standard poodle, puppy named Maude. She is my companion, and I look forward to her maturation so that she can be present and show others the wonderful dog that I experience in my daily life. Just like with any new addition to a family, I can’t imagine my life without her. I’ve continued with home and yard improvement tasks when I could and have been busy adding color to our lives inside and out. I have also made a conscious effort to be more social and make more friends of my own. My surgery is mid-January and there’s a potential for me to be laid up for as much as 6 weeks reclining bedrest. Although I am absolutely dreading it, the benefits outweigh the risks and luckily, I am blessed with two mothers who are sacrificing their time and energy to come here and care for their baby and all of mine too. It also helps to have a best friend and ICU nurse as a next door neighbor.
All in all, we are really pleased with the home and life we are making for ourselves here in Corvallis. We adore Oregon and hope to live no more in Southern California (no offense). You’d hate it here. It rains all the time and when it doesn’t it’s cold and grey. You never see the sun. Everybody is rude and depressed. Stay away. Wink! Except to visit – NUDGE, NUDGE!! You are welcome to the Casa de K’s, or “the purple house” any time. We spoil guests rotten. Really. Ask around.
And to top our “newsletter” off, here is my cheesy family photo submissions from our family to yours as a virtual Holiday Well Wishes card:
