Two things, both labor intensive and no big deal but I tried to make them meaningful, thoughtful, surprising, and useful; not just stuff:
- 3 disc mixed cd
- Master Bedroom Closet organization system (knowing that this was somewhat of a mutual gift and not cheap I told him ahead of time not to buy anything for me)
“7 Years and Counting: A Soundtrack for the Ecclectic Cheesiness of Our Love”
This was a 3 disc set custom downloaded and mixed by moi for Kham. Most of you probably know that that was a big part of Kham and I working to stay together through our lengthy long-distance relationship (we went straight from long-distance to living together). Our mixed tape exchanges were musical lovenotes that have permanently associated the person with those songs. We now, can’t hear those songs without our memories being triggered of where we were and what we were doing when we first listened to those mixes. In making this grand mix, I realized that the last time we had made a mix for one another was before you could burn cds on the computer! We had never had a cd mix. And even now that we’ve just done this, we don’t have an ipod to just transfer playlists. I had to deal with a tempermental burner that keeps messing up the burning of disc #2 or the set. Arg. It was really fun to do.
What made this mix particularly special, aside from the fact that it was a multiple collection and actually on a cd instead of cassette tape, is that I arranged it in an order and wrote a letter to accompany it that retold our love story like this was the soundtrack to our life and romance, putting song names in bold parenthesis. Normally, I’d arrange it in the most pleasant listening order and vary tempo for listening pacing and attention, etc. This format was really fun and different for me.
The reason for the length of the cds was that this was a list of songs that I have been collecting for 5 1/2 years! Ever since Kham got SIRIUS satellite radio in Elko when Kosette was a baby, I have been writing down song and artist names for future mixes. Through the years I have saved every little scrap of napkin or receipt back upon which I’d written, and then cataloged them in my palm pilot just for this purpose. I finally cashed it all in and downloaded a shitload of music off of Amazon and itunes.
I would’ve added the “Anyone Else But You” song from the June movie soundtrack by The Moldy Peaches but you had to purchase the whole album to get it so forget that. And I wanted the movie version of Pirates of Penzance with Kevin Klein and Linda Ronstadt but I couldn’t find it. Oh, and I wanted the Kristen Chenowith/ Patti LaPone version of Candide they did for a PBS concert but I couldn’t find that on an album. Oh well. It was quite full enough. I tried to keep a sense of humor to the song selection as well. It’s like giving sappy cards – I just can’t buy them. They make me giggle or roll my eyes. They have to have a touch of comical or be totally blank so I can write my own sappiness.
If you’d like some insight into us, and our musical appreciation, you can have a look at the playlist:
7 Years & Counting: Disc 1:
1. Girl – Across the Universe
2. The Bitch of Living – Spring Awakening
3. Sodomy - Hair
4. Black Boys – Hair
5. White Boys – Hair
6. It Might As Well Be Spring – State Fair
7. Breakable – Ingrid Michaelson
8. Summer of ’42 – Summer of ‘42
9. True Love’s Kiss – Enchanted
10. Stranger on the Shore – Acker Bilk
11. I Want to Hold Your Hand – Across the Universe
12. It Ain’t Me Babe – Walk the Line
13. Make It With You – Bread
14. Sweet Leilani – Chris Isaak
15. Cherry Pink and Appleblossom White – Perez Prado Orchestra
16. Daddy – Kristen Chenowith
17. American Boy – Estelle Featuring Kanye West
18. I Want You (She’s So Heavy) – Across the Universe
19. Teach U A Lesson – Robin Thicke
20. If I Fell – Across the Universe
21. That’s How You Know – Enchanted
22. Sleepwalk – Santo And Johnny Il-Meggio
23. Like A Star – Corinne Bailey Rae
24. Everything’s Alright – Jesus Christ Superstar
25. As Long As You’re Mine – Wicked
7 Years & Counting: Disc 2:
26. 1. That’s All – Michael Buble
27. 2. Blue Sunday – The Doors
28. 3. Anyway You Want Me – Bread
29. 4. What Are You Doing The Rest of Your Life? – Chris Botti FeaturingSting
30.5. I Walk the Line – Johnny Cash
31. 6. If I Were A Carpenter – Bobby Darrin
32. 7. Bubbly – Colbie Caillat
33. 8. Hold Me Tight – Across the Universe
34. 9. Hooked On A Feeling – B.J. Thomas
35. 10. Happy Together – The Turtles
36. 11. Breaking Free – High School Musical
37. 12. Reminiscing – Little River Band
38. 13. Super Duper Love – Joss Stone
39. 14. It Won’t Be Long – Across the Universe
40.15. Oh, Happy We – Candide
41. 16. Ring of Fire – Johnny Cash
42. 17. Danny’s Song – Anne Murray
43. 18. Oh, Darling – Across the Universe
44. 19. Here Alone – Little Women
45. 20. The Chairman’s Waltz – Memoirs of a Geisha
46. 21. Syrup and Honey – Duffy
47. 22. She’s No Lady – Lyle Lovette
48. 23. The Way I Am – Ingrid Michaelson
49. 24. If – Bread
50. 25. Lost Without U – Robin Thicke
7 Years & Counting: Disc 3:
51. 1. Never My Love – The Association
52. 2. Our House – Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young
53. 3. Sweet Life – Paul Davis
54. 4. Longer – Dan Fogelberg
55. 5. If Not For You – Bob Dylan
56. 6. Just Remember I Love You – Firefall
57. 7. Baby I’m A Want You – Bread
58. 8. What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life? – Dusty Springfield
59. 9. Keep Breathing – Ingrid Michaelson
60.10. Because – Across the Universe
61. 11. The Wings – Brokeback Mountain
62. 12. Sweet Leilani – Diamond Head Beach Boys
63. 13. All You Need Is Love – Across the Universe
64. 14. We Can Make It – The Rink
65. 15. Chief Cook and Bottle Washer – The Rink
66. 16. Sweet Leilani – Andy Williams
The Mutual Gift of Closet Organization:
I bought, transported 12 foot long x 16″ sections through my Jetta’s sunroof, cut with bolt cutters, and installed in studs and with appropriate wall anchors by myself (except one little part that a neighbor helped me with) variable and fixed Rubbermade wire shelving systems from Home Depot for two walls of our closet AND painted the closet interior in one working day to surprise Kham when he got home. The biggest gift being another pain-in-the-ass home improvement project that he didn’t have to waste a Saturday on. PLUS, believe it or not, this was a big gift for HIM because he has more clothes than me now with his outside job. He leaves so early in the morning and is superconsiderate about the noise and he makes that he dresses in the closet. But, we didn’t have enough shelving or cubby space and we are not Hang up everything people. So I’d hear him fumbling around and cursing the tumbling gigantic piles we had stacked on our shoe racks. We couldn’t find or access anything without knocking others to the floor. I dreaded putting clothes away. It was hard to categorize things like work and personal for him. Now it’s totally neat in there and he gets dressed ultra quick with no stress. One of the best spent home improvements we’ve made thus far I think. Wish we’d bit the bullet and done it sooner. We’ve been dealing with that mess and hassle for 2 1/2 years by then. (Kellen was my assistant – helped me cut with the bolt cutters, drill holes, and screw things in. He loved it.)